Ensuring Lasting Love and Marriage

How did our fore-parents do it? How did they manage their life to live longer when medical care was not as sophisticated as it is today? How come marriage for them lasted a lifetime?

The answer is simple. Our grandparents used a marriage system that worked. It worked in the sense that those who got married within the established system enjoyed lasting love, respect, and commitment. That is why with very few resources our fore-parents were able to raise their children and even grandchildren successfully. That success is visible in the central roles played by their descendants in all aspects of everyday life in Africa today.

Unfortunately today things have changed. Various factors – education, career, financial status, kyeeyo – have either made individuals too busy to socialize and meet their potential partners, or have driven them abroad where effective socializing becomes more difficult and complicated. In addition the key roles of Ssenga and Kojja have been displaced by an uncaring modern education system.

Empeta International does not believe in computer manipulation and matching. Individuals have unique feelings and personalities which simply cannot be successfully matched on a computer. We therefore have reinvented the Ssenga and Kojja institutions. We use existing skills drawn from our indigenous knowledge systems to give the process a personal touch that ensures a successful match.

Because of our interest in the suitability of the match, individuals are required to upload comprehensive CVs with bio data and provide two character references. These are kept strictly confidential and treated with absolute respect. Empeta International will then contact individuals to start a communication process that will eventually lead to a successful match.